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How to Take Care of An Aging Dog

our aging dog Wile E

This is not my typical post, but it is exactly what I am dealing with right now. If you are not a dog person, a lot of this probably won’t make sense. 🙂 If you are, you will probably be faced with some of these issues at some point, if you haven’t already. Hopefully these tips that I am learning about how to take care of an aging dog will be helpful for you.

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I need to be upfront with you though, these tips are coming from my experiences, not from an expert in the field. We have had several dogs over the years, and they have all lived pretty long lives. It seems like they all went downhill so quickly that we didn’t have the same issues we are having this time. This time I am truly learning how to take care of an aging dog.

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Meet Wile E., who will be 16 in July – he’s the little one!

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Isn’t he adorable? He has always been such a spunky, spirited little guy who kept us laughing. If you ever left the front door open, even for a second, he would be out in a flash – running through the neighborhood, making his “mark” on everything! Rarely could we catch him. We would have to wait it out (while watching for cars from a hiding place). When he got tired and thirsty, he would make his way back home.

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aging dog dominance

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As you can tell from the picture of him with Ally, he is definitely the boss! You can sense that she is really laughing at him when he thinks he is putting her in her place.

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It is sad to see him in such an elderly state now, but he does not show any signs of being in pain. He has had lots of changes though – he is almost completely deaf, he has lost most of his close-up vision, and he is missing a few teeth. These changes are what has led us to make some adaptations and adjustments in how we take care of him. Here are some of the things that have worked for us as we have learned about how to take care of our aging dog.

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Have a Great Veterinarian

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dogs at the vet's office
Christmas Photo at the Vet’s Office

I know everyone probably loves their vet or they wouldn’t stay with them. We have used our vet for so many years. She has taken care of many, many of our babies. She is wonderful! It is so important to have someone you trust and who will actually listen to you. Before we found her, we were not that fortunate.

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Medications

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As you can probably guess, Wile E. is on several different medications. Some of these have worked wonders for him for years. I literally have our vet’s contact information in my “favorites” on my phone. There is always something that needs to be refilled. You can really tell a difference in him since he started taking the meds. He feels so much better.

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Medication Tips

  • Keep their medications in a twice a day medicine box.
  • Check your options for pick-up or home delivery to see which is the most economical.
  • We found that pill pockets worked best as far as pockets are concerned because they are softer and more pliable. These worked for several years!
  • Just recently, it has become hard for him to get down the pill pockets. I started trying everything – cheese, lunchmeat, peanut butter, and many other things, but nothing worked with him. Then I found it – FROZEN COOL WHIP! He loves it, it is soft and pliable, and it doesn’t get stuck in his teeth.

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Special Dog Food

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Check with your vet on the type of food you give your aging dogs. We had to change his dry dog food several years ago, and it made a huge difference. He still eats the same dog food, but we have started supplementing with the same brand of food in the canned version. It seems a little easier for him.

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sleeping elderly dog

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Sleeping Arrangements

I know I will get mixed responses on this, but our four legged babies do sleep in the bed with us. This has never been an issue in the past, but it has become like sleeping with a newborn – one eye is always open. He sleeps very soundly, but I am always afraid that he will wake up and jump off of the bed. That used to not be a problem, but now he is a little fragile, and the bed is very high.

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We bought a small dog bed for the bedroom, but he doesn’t ever use it. We know that he is comfortable in our bed, and we don’t want to change things up on him now that he is aging. If your four legged aging baby will sleep in a dog bed, there are some really nice memory foam beds you can get to help with any aches or pains they may have.

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He does have a rather large dog bed in the laundry room where he sleeps during the day. If you need a spot for a “dog room,” a laundry room works great. It is out of the way, and the food, water, and a bed will usually fit nicely.

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Safety for Your Aging Dog

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Wile E. does a lot of pacing! In fact, every time I talk to someone on the phone they either ask what the strange noise is or they already know and tell me they can hear Wile E. pacing. His nails click on the wood floors with every step he takes.

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As he is pacing, he tends to get right under your feet! We are constantly telling each other to, “Watch out! Wile E. is right behind you!” If you have an elderly dog, they may tend to get right under you or your company. Many times it is easier to put them in the “dog room” for their protection and your guests’ as well. You never want someone to get hurt tripping over your dog.

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Any time we go to the refrigerator or pantry, he sticks his head inside, but doesn’t back out when we do. I don’t know how many times we have almost closed his head in the door. We have to watch out for him constantly.

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We believe we see some signs of Doggy Dementia (pacing being one of them). Another thing we have noticed is that on occasion when we come home from being gone, he is outside. It is as if he is looking for us. Some days he can figure out how to go in and out of the doggy door but not always. Now when the weather is bad, we keep the doggy door closed.

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This is a totally new thing for us, because he has always had the run of the house and the yard. Safety is more important though!

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Keeping the House Clean with an Aging Dog

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We are not a family who has a magazine ready home at all times. Our home is lived in, and we enjoy it. However, I have an issue with germs – I like to know the house is clean. Wile E. has always used the doggy door to go potty; we have never had an issue with that. Just recently, he has had a few accidents in the house. Luckily, they have almost all been on the wood floor. That sure makes for easier clean up than the carpet.

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I can give you a strong warning about what NOT to use as a solution. If your aging dog is like ours and paces constantly. Do not lock them in the laundry room with a doggy gate if you leave the house! You will be in for one huge mess if they POTTY and then pace! This is a strong warning!

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We have put a few preventative measures in place at this point:

  • Bathroom Routine – When we are here, we take him outside about every two hours.
    • I have found that when he first wakes up, he will potty better if I hold him for a little bit until he is fully awake.
    • Sometimes a very small treat will get him fully awake and ready to go potty.
  • We keep a small moving blanket in the laundry room floor. We tried the potty pads, but they didn’t work well for us with his pacing.
  • We keep all of the bedroom doors closed since they have carpet.
  • We have two doggy gates blocking the den area (which has carpet).
  • The most ridiculous thing ever – the only way I could block the dining area was to lay the chairs down, side by side around the carpeted area. There are large open areas, but he usually doesn’t mess with them.
    • Of course if we have company, I will put them back at the table.
    • On a funny note, we came home from church Sunday to find Wile E. trapped in the middle of the dining room. He got through the chairs to get into the area but couldn’t figure out how to get out of it.

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Did I mention that this is the most ridiculous thing ever???

blocking the dining area from the dog

If we forget, or the preventative measures don’t work:

  • We keep a mop by the back door.
  • We keep the carpet cleaner handy.
  • We keep lots of patience and remember that he can’t help it.

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Products to Help Care for Aging Dogs

disclosure

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These are the products we use or have used. When we ran out of potty pads, we put down a small moving blanket. It worked great and was washable. This saved us quite a bit of money.

Favorite Dog Ranch & Rescue Site

I have followed The Lone Star Dog Ranch & Rescue for several years on Facebook. They have the most amazing place in Anna, Texas. If you haven’t seen their page, check it out when you get a chance. I have learned many things from their experiences! Here is a link to their site.

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For read more about Wile E. and Ally along with a rescue testimony, read the post “Rescued.”

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I don’t know how many of you have elderly dogs or are facing these types of issues. Our pets are so much a part of our families that you do what you need to do to take care of them, but it can be hard. I hope these things we have learned about how to take care of an aging dog will help anyone who is in this situation or who will be at some point.

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If any of you have other tips or ideas, please share! I am especially interested in other ways to block my dining area! All suggestions are welcomed!

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Have a Grace & Joy-filled day!

Susan

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“When I am filled with cares, Your comfort brings me joy.” Psalms 94:19

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20 Comments

  1. Such a sweetie pie, Susan! Our dogs all lived to 17, 18, 19 and they were not easy towards the end so I have deep empathy for what you’re going through. Both of our terriers had canine dementia in their later years and would stare at blank walls or get caught under the table or a desk not knowing how to get out even though both were open on 3 of 4 sides. We eventually had to put the all the chairs on top of the table cafeteria style, pull up all the rugs, and leave as many wide open “lanes” as possible to keep them safe. We have hardwood floors, tile and an open floor plan though so our set up is a little different. We also had to eventually place an air mattress on the floor for the same sleeping reasons you were concerned about. It was tough especially when they would sundown and be up for most of the night but also an honor to love them through it. I’ll definitely be keeping you guys in my prayers. Big hugs and hang in there, CoCo PS: small meals helped (they all loved roasted chicken) and cream cheese helped them take their meds.

    1. Wow! 19 is a really long time for a dog. You probably have lots of stories! I have never thought about cream cheese, but I will definitely try it. I think he would love it!

  2. Such a great post. Non-dog lovers just don’t understand dog lovers. Some precious pets become family members to us, not just a pet. We’ve all heard that dog is man’s best friend. It’s so sad that they don’t live longer. Thanks so much for linking up at the #UnlimitedLinkParty 102. Shared.

  3. First, thank you for linking up on Whimsy Home Wednesday Blog Link Party. I read your post with tears in my eyes as we are starting to see our chiweenie age and decline. He is my buddy, my best friend and has been through ALL THE THINGS with me for eight years (even though it seems longer). My daughter, last night, asked why can’t he stay awake and be with me? That was a hard answer, after pacing and pacing he falls hard asleep. And he is almost totally deaf so it’s hard to wake him up without startling him. We have learned to blow gently in his face to wake him up if needed. Once again thank you for sharing your experience and tips. Huge help!

    1. It is really hard – the price of true love! That is exactly how Wile E. Sleeps. There are times I have to check to see if he’s breathing. It’s heart breaking, but what joy they bring us!! ❤️

  4. We lost our 14 year old several months back and the last year was hard. Patience is such an important reminder no matter how frustrating they are doing nothing on purpose the challenges are frustrating for them as I know with our girl she had been stubbornly independent in all the 12 years we had her from rescue.

    One product that I had never heard of that was helpful as she started to struggle with getting up off the floor that our dog PT person suggested was the Help ’em Up Harness. I have my own physical challenges so helping her up and assisting her up and down our back stairs to get out was incredibly challenging for me. The harness is worn at all times and it was such a gift. It has to be some what comfortable as she was the kind of dog who hated wearing anything and she wore this close to a year before she passed.

    I can’t echo having a Vet you trust as being such a priority. It is a blessing to have a Vet you trust even when the answers aren’t the ones you want to hear.

    1. It’s so incredibly hard!! I’m thankful that you shared about the harness. I’ve never heard of that. I have a friend going through this very thing, and I think it would be very helpful to her.
      Blessings,
      Susan

  5. I totally understand where you’re at and we have been there so many times in the past. Right now we are nursing an elderly dachshund back from a serious spine injury. ( I loved your frozen cool whip tip for meds! ) Our dogs also sleep with us and I offer no apologies for that! We did purchase a collapsible pet ramp that has allowed me to sleep as soundly as our little Cooper does now. We also attached retractable gates to several areas in the house. They are a soft nylon material and come in several sizes. We can close off our living room, dining room, ect. easily now. When we downsize, we will have to patch the holes as the base is drilled into the wall, but that’s such a small price to know they are safe! Sending hugs your way! Wile E. was a lucky dog to have found you all those years ago!

    1. It’s so good to hear from other dog lovers who understand! I’m so sorry to say, but last week we lost him. I’m still heartbroken, but I’m just trying to love on Ally so she doesn’t feel so lonely. Wile E was a precious soul and will be missed much!

      Prayers for your little baby. I hope he heals quickly!

      1. So very sorry! I’m a big believer in the Rainbow Bridge! He’ll be waiting for you there. Prayers!

  6. Susan, your babies are so precious. This is wonderful and important information, and I appreciate that you share tips from your family’s experiences. My fur baby, Little Girl, is a seven-year-old beagle with epilepsy and takes medication daily. This is so important. I felt others should know this information, Tewwted, and Pinned it.
    Thank you so much for sharing this valuable information with Sweet Tea & friends this month.

    1. Thank you so much! Our fur babies are priceless, aren’t they? I hope your baby is doing okay and the medicine helps. I’ve learned a lot with this little guy. My kids always teased that he was my favorite child. It was just that he was my empty nest child, so he was a little spoiled. I’m sorry to say that we lost him a couple of weeks ago. I’ve been heartbroken, but Ally is helping us heal. I appreciate your kind words and sharing! I love the Sweet Tea site! Have a blessed day!

  7. I have had dogs almost my entire life, they are always more than a pet to me and my family. Our current beloved pooch is like a child to us, he goes everywhere we do. People who are not dog lovers just do not get it, but we tell people he is our four legged child, and if they do not like it then we can go home. I have been through many deaths, and I am always crushed when it happens so I understand what you have gone through. After my last pup, I said no more, but my husband convinced me I was missing a piece of my heart, and so I opened my heart up to another one, but he is nothing like the others I have had which I think has been good for me. He keeps us on our toes, and is always into something.

    1. I know what you mean! My kids used to say that Wile E. was my favorite child. 😂 We lost him in March, and I was crushed! We already had Ally and chose not to get a second baby, which I thought would be odd, but she enjoys being an only child.

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